In a world of deceit and treachery, it’s hard to distinguish what is and what is not true. You are not really sure if what people show are real manifestations of their feelings. As a lady, you may not be sure if the man that you are dating is simply having a good time, or if he is really in love with you.

You spend a considerable amount of time talking to your friends and analyzing your man’s behavior. You’ve spent nights just to dissect the actions that your man is showing you only to find out the next day that he’s suddenly out of reach – and out of sight.

So how do you know that a man is “really into you?” If you have watched the movie He’s Just Not That Into You, then you’d have a fair glimpse of the sure signs of men not being truly in love with you. Conversely, you would have a solid idea as to the signs when men are simply playing your around.

Here are a few signs that your man is head over heels in love with you:

1. He keeps your phone busy.

When you are not together, your man keeps on calling you, or texting you. He has to know if you’ve already eaten, already have gone to work, and already have gone home. In a way, he is constantly checking you out. He does not let you wait by the phone. Conversely, your man also tells you his whereabouts. To the cynical, this gesture of a man may seem corny and almost psycho but to the hopeless romantic, this is a sure sign that a man is truly in love with her.

2. He asks about your dreams and goals in life.

A man who is truly in love likes to know what you want in life – and hopes to be an instrument to help you attain that goal. He’d be more than willing to sacrifice for you – just so you can finally realize what you dearly want out of life.

A man who is not so enthusiastic about your dreams should send out red flags. After all, as Paulo Coelho said in The Alchemist: true love does not keep you from pursuing your personal legend. Ideally then, a man should not – in any way – come between you and your dreams.

3. He introduces you to his friends and family.

Rarely do men open their doors to the women whom they are getting to know – or constantly dating. So when your man starts introducing you to his friends, then you can prance with joy because he is simply telling you that he’s more than happy to let you into his “inner circle.”

When your man talks about introducing you his family, get ecstatic. He is not just into you, he is ready to commit to you – and marry you. Meeting the family is a very big deal and if your man puts you in such a situation, be prepared to be in a serious relationship, or to get married.

So there you have it ladies: a few signs that shout “love is in the air.”