The cloud might be very dark but the fact that she hates you is a silver lining. Hate is another expression of love and that is impossible to deny. All you need to do is break your ex’s resolve to not listen to you and make her see that you do deserve a second chance. Here is what you need to do to get a girl back if she hates you.

Give her a break please

If you think that by talking to her you will be able to get her to forgive you and hate you less then you couldn’t be more mistaken. All you will do her is annoy her even more if you do so. For your well being and for the sake of salvaging your relationship you need to give her a break!

Ignoring her also works

You think she hates you and she thinks you are pathetic. Change all that by ignoring her completely. Don’t come within her sight for a while and even when you do look right through her. If you bump into each other then all you need to do is smile and walk away.

Get your focus right

The person in your focus shouldn’t be your ex at the moment. It should be you. You clearly have to focus on sorting out your problems and resolving all your past issues. One you have your focus in place your entire attitude changes.

Start living your life

You need to now show your ex that you are going to move on in your life and couldn’t care a damn if she hates you. So get your groove back and start hanging out with people who seem to value you. Once she sees that you are no longer in the pathetic loser mode she will begin to hate you less.

Meet new people

Start meeting new people and make new friends. Get popular with the ladies and sweep them off their feet with your charm and humor. Get witty and see how popular you get and soon your ex will be in line vying for your attention.

Be cordial

You must never be rude to your ex. Being polite and cordial always works better as that doesn’t give you a negative reaction ever.

Have the right attitude

Have the right attitude around your ex. Don’t make it seem that the break up was a big deal after a point. Get casual with her, spend some time together and soon you’ll see that she has let go of her hate and has rekindled her relationship with you.