Learning how to have sex without ejaculating too quickly can definitely be tricky. Guys naturally ejaculate much faster than women. So we have to learn ways to hold out longer so they can experience orgasm.

First is the set up. Learning how to have sex without ejaculating too quickly first involves setting up your sexual encounter the right way. Don’t just jump in the sack and go at it. You will definitely end up ejaculating first and your partner won’t get pleased. You need to employ foreplay. Please your partner as much as you can during foreplay. Use your hands, your tongue, and kiss her all over to really get her stimulated. This way, once you are ready to have sex, she will already be on the road towards orgasm since you’ve employed so much stimulation beforehand.

Next, is the actual act. SEX. You want to go slow to start with. This way you can monitor your own excitement level. If you feel too excited, like you might ejaculate quickly, you can still save yourself by pulling out and waiting a moment until you simmer down, and then resume. Otherwise, if you start out FAST, then you will be so engaged in your quick thrusts that you won’t be able to control the quick explosion to come.

Finally, your breathing, confidence and calmness are absolutely KEY for learning how to have sex without ejaculating too quickly. This really makes a huge difference. Most guys don’t control their mind when having sex. They get over excited and mentally wound up. That’s why they suffer from premature ejaculation. It’s very common, but if you try breathing slowly and remaining calm you will notice your lasting ability greatly increases. And then there’s confidence. Imagine how much you are pleasing your partner. Focus on her. Have confidence in the knowing that you are able to please her beyond belief, and she will experience an incredible orgasm because of you. This helps tremendously for avoiding quick ejaculation from occurring!