What do you make out of your current troubled relationship?

Make an honest assessment of your situation.

Are you in a state of confusion over the extent of your relationship or are you in state of denial?

Are you in a state of pretence over your relationship or having a load of mixed feelings over it?

All these questions undoubtedly put a strain a possibly damaged relationship.

What exactly do you want out your relationship? Is it just excitement and romance, or perhaps you want to have a more intellectual and spiritual connection as well? Definitely what you do not want in a relationship is deceit, abuse or ignorance.

What you and your partner want or desire out of a troubled relationship would require a firm commitment from both partners to actively contribute towards mending and moving forward in reconciliation.

To be able to see things clearly, you may need to move a step back and analyze what has exactly gone wrong. A temporary separation will allow both partners time to truly evaluate the situation with minimum stress and distraction.

It is not the end of the world for you if you come to terms with the reality that the relationship is not working at all. Life has to move on, forward. However if there is every chance for reconciliation, you and your partner must be open minded and communicate to work things out for the better.

A troubled relationship does not necessarily mean the end of the world because what you need to realize is that you and your partner must take a step back and view the whole situation and find a solution to mend your differences and move forward towards a brighter reconciliation.

What is important to know at this point of time is that no one is to be blamed for the soured relationship. It is not a time to hurl accusations at each other and it will take a lot of understanding and forgiveness to earn the respect and love of both partners. You need to invoke change to work things out for a better relationship.

You and your partner will shape the destiny in your relationship because you are both writers of your script. Your mission therefore is to map out your destiny and fate has it that you will have a long and lasting relationship.