Seducing your wife or girlfriend doesn’t have to be as complicated as most guys make it out to be. You don’t have to become something that you aren’t to impress her or learn some sort of new technique to turn her on. For most women it isn’t even about buying them expensive gifts or roses or even telling them that you love them all the time.

For most women seduction begins way before you might even think of putting any moves on her. Not that your wife or girlfriend is old or broken down but she does require the same kind of care that you would expect to give a vintage automobile. If you really want to seduce your wife or girlfriend you need to give her plenty of time to warm up.

Morning – If you ever hope to seduce your wife or girlfriend tonight you should start getting her warmed up in the morning. This means making sure you give her a little attention or letting her know that you do care about her.

You can accomplish this and set yourself up for seducing her later on tonight by just a few little things. Tell her sincerely how much you appreciate her. Maybe leave her a note somewhere that she will find it later telling her that you love her. Perhaps bring her coffee in bed or get up before her and make her some coffee.

It is often the little things that mean the most and a little consideration goes a long way. Make the effort and it will be noticed and the most precious things in a woman’s mind are often those that don’t cost you a dime.

Noon – Send her a text message halfway through the day. Texting can be a very effective way to seduce a woman and these days most women expect you to become somewhat skilled at seducing them through text messaging. But to begin, just let her know that you are thinking of her and that you can’t wait to see her tonight. Just knowing that you were on her mind will mean a lot to her, especially if this is not something that you normally do.

If you really want to get things started you can always make your text just a little bit racy. If things have been cool between the two of you though you should save this for a later date but rest assured that most women like and appreciate a little flirtatious texting in the middle of the day.

Night – This is when things get really interesting and when all your hard work can pay off. Little things like taking care of the dishes after dinner or taking out the trash without being asked can go a long way in showing that you care about her. A little flirting and touching her can definitely set the stage for more amorous attention later on in the evening.

Touching is one thing that most guys just don’t get but by simply making physical contact with your wife or girlfriend by placing your hand on her back or touching her arm or shoulder you can create a connection with her that goes miles beyond what a dozen roses or box of chocolates will ever do. Try it sometime and see the reaction that you get. Most women will react quite favorably from a little physical contact and what you might think is stupid or silly is very important to most women.