Ok, now maybe this was never a problem or never bothered you before but all of a sudden you realize that you are 45 years of age and that you are single. You don’t want to be alone for the rest of your entire life; you do not want to be without someone at your side to comfort you in the hard times. But you are now thinking to yourself that you are too old to find a date easily, well that is not true.

Now the first and most important thing that you would have to do is believe in yourself, have a little confidence because you probably don’t have any confidence in yourself at the moment you feel so lost without the strength of someone by your side. If you keep thinking that you are just an old loser no one else will really think differently. This is why having self confidence is so important because it produces the image of yourself that most people see when they look at you. So the next time you see a very attractive looking stranger in the mall or on the street don’t hesitate to approach him/her and strike up a conversation.

Another thing to remember is to always try and keep your self well dressed and looking good, don’t dress as if you are going to the Grammy awards everyday, just keep it simple but at the same time you don’t want to look as if you just rolled out of bed and put on the first thing that you could reach, because that won’t be very appealing to most people out there. But whatever it may be that you are wearing just have confidence wearing it.

Just remember you’ve got to go out there and meet people. Another great place where you can find lots of interesting people is at an online dating service, those things work great you should consider trying one sometime, it does not matter how old you are and you are guaranteed to meet lots of different types of people. But the most important thing by far to remember if you really want to get back in the game is to build up your self confidence, just have a little faith in yourself and everything else will just fall into place, and remember you are only out of the game if you take yourself out of it.