TAGS: #deceit
If you are able to detect a lie, then you can easily find who are a good guy and bad guy so you will be aware as not too easily follow what other people said. You may want to learn how to know deflections. It is kind of condition when you will not to be honest so you will say anything around this. Some people will tell a true story related to your question, but not exactly answer what you asked.
When you are talking with someone, try to attention what other body parts do. It seems when you are lying then, another part of your body will do any strange activity as the result of uncomfortable feeling to hiding the worry. During your conversation, you also can insert some silence and then watch. If your opposites in conversation become uncomfortable, when you for a while show disbelief, then they are lying. Usually if people say a truth, and you show disbelief face, they will be frustrated by pressing lips together, downing brows, or even become angry.
One rule to success determining a person lies is to know the base line of when she or he does not lie. To know how their act when not lying, you can start with general questions as name or jobs. After you establish the base line, then you can detect when they are lying by noticing the changes of their act.
During your conversation, you also can determine the lying from words they are used. It is clearly a lie when you hear someone tell to details. This expression means they are desperate in the effort to convince you what they said is true. Alternatively, if you find someone repeat your words when describing a matter or suddenly raise the vocal pitch, it signs you for any lying of their statements.
Then take a habit to notice the eye movements of your opposites when you are talking. The common belief when people lying, they will avoid any eye contact is not completely true. Even a liar can purposely do it when they are talking in order to make you believe. Actually, when someone focuses on one non-moving thing, it can be his or her effort to remember what to say. Just establish the baseline and make your comparison. If their eyes do not move when tell their name, but it moves on your right when answering your detail question, it shows you that the person is a liar.