14th February is a day associated with doe-eyed couples, romance and a booming business for florists. But the origins of Valentine's Day is rather tragic – one legend has it that it is dedicated to a priest who defied the Roman law that outlawed marriage for young men as the Emperor Claudius II thought that single men where better soldiers than married ones. But when it was discovered that he married young couples in secret, the priest Valentine was put to death.

Here are a couple of East Asian takes on Valentine's Day for Japan and Korea.

Japan

An unique variant of Valentine's Day has emerged here in Japan where women are expected to give gifts – instead of men giving gifts to the ladies – to the men of their fancy. The gifts are usually exquisitely wrapped chocolates that reflect the thoughts of the ladies. There is a name for these chocolates – giri-choko (or obligation chocolate). But one month later on 14th March, the man recipies have to return the favor in the form of white chocolate of march mellows. Is not it interesting? Nowadays, it is not just restricted between couples in courtship. More are giving giri-choco to platonic guy friends and such chocolates are known as tomo-choco (friend-chocolate).

Korea

On 11th November each year, many young couples celebrate "Pepero Day". The name of this day is named after popular stick biscuit snacks. Here in Korea, Pepero Day evolves snacks, candy and other gifts. Singles are not forgotten too. They also celebrate on 14th April by getting together and eating a dish of noodles stirred in white and black bean sauce that signifies bringing luck to their love life.

So if you have any Japanese or Korean friends, do celebrate these Valentine-themed festivals with them as a sign of your friendship. I'm sure they will be welcomed.